Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts

Monday, September 3, 2012

Back to the Future: Journeys to Greece 1996 & 2012


Mykonos 1996: John, Kristin, Keith, Janice, and me
Way back in 1996, a group of friends from Raleigh heard about a party being thrown on the Greek Island of Mykonos called the 12 Gods Party (I forgot how simple and innocent the internet was back then…). So about 10 or so of us bought our tickets and jetted over to the Aegean Sea for a week of parties, food, drink, dancing, and fun under the deep blue Aegean sky.  It was a whirlwind tour – much of which was lost in a haze of drugs and alcohol and parties that lasted into the wee hours of the morning.

Sadly, many of the memories of happy times shared together that we did retain were soon overshadowed by our arrival home to a city devastated by Hurricane Fran. We were lucky in that we missed the storm, but we returned home to the aftermath. Luckily for me, my dear friend Clodagh was able to prepare our home for the storm accompanied by only the pets we had left in her care.

At that time, I lived in an old, established neighborhood. The streets previously shaded by old growth oak trees near the University were, upon our return, entangled with the remains of 50+ year old tree trunks, limbs, and electrical wires. Our freezers were filled with rotted food, and for some of us, our roofs had been caved in by felled trees. Five days without electricity in the sultry summer sucked away much of the joy and happiness we retained from our time in paradise.

Sixteen years later, John and I are closer than ever as friends and we are returning to the Aegean Sea older, wiser, with more appreciation for the life we have been blessed with and love we have for partners, friends, and family. Many things in our lives have changed, but our friendship has never been more solid. As John would say, “We are fiercer than ever!”

Rather than spending our entire time on a single island, this trip will be an adventure that I will hopefully never forget. We will be setting sail from Athens on a clipper ship with 150 other passengers. Our itinerary will bring us back to Mykonos, a place where our lives seemed to change for the better so many years ago. We will also be visiting the Greek Islands of Patmos, Santorini, Menomvasia, and the Turkish port of Kusadasi. The history geek in me is giddy with excitement. The enthusiastic tourist in me can’t wait for new experiences. My taste buds are tingling with the thought of new eating adventures and my feet are itching to be dancing again with friends under the Aegean stars. 

Opa! 

Coincidentally, just as in 1996, as I prepare for this journey there is a hurricane brewing in the Atlantic. We are all hoping and praying that Isaac either turns north heading out to sea or comes ashore as a tropical storm providing some drought relief for the Midwest.  

Saturday, December 31, 2011

Goodbye 2011 - Hello 2012

This morning, as I was lying in bed wondering if everyday of my 49th year was going to feel like a hangover, I reflected on the past year and started thinking about the year to come. One nice thing about having a birthday at the butt end of the year is that the retrospective holiday special includes all twelve of the previous months.

2011 was a year of travel beginning with our yearly Caribbean cruise in February with John and Jay from Fort Lauderdale, as well as with friends from Chicago, Germany, England, and other far-flung parts of the world. The ports were pretty boring in themselves this time out, but we kept busy with massages, excursions (ATV tour, zip lines, and Mayan ruins), parties, dinners, and trips to the shipboard clinic for John's crushed finger. This was followed by a trip to Chicago over Memorial day, an unexpected trip to Asia to visit the branch of the family taking root on the other side of the world, and a Thanksgiving excursion to visit John and Jay.

2011 was also a year of huge work projects as well as several large organizational changes that have left me feeling a bit rudderless. I was chatting with Alex last night and told him changes with my job were slowly sucking away my mojo - of course that comment could also be due to the end of the year blues, the slow progression of the years, or the gathering gravitational force of my sofa. Nonetheless, besides the several end of year trips I have taken, I have been quite the homebody over the past six months - early to bed, early to rise, and mostly hangover-free....

At Christmas dinner, my dear friend Clodagh asked everyone at the table about their new year resolutions. Since I had not started thinking of them as yet, I came up with the boring response of working to be more frugal while still maintaining my semi-fabulous lifestyle - hence my frenzy of retail therapy to close out 2011 - a boy has to shop after all!

This morning, between the pulsation of PBR-induced head pains, I conducted a more thorough inventory of the things I would like to work on in the coming year.
  1. Break out of my comfort level and take more risks (career choices, relationships, spiritually)
  2. Pay off my car by July (two years early) and increase my emergency fund by $5000
  3. Have no credit card debt at the end of the year (The trip to Asia slammed my budget, I have two more big trips planned, but there are no regrets on that account)
  4. Read at least 10 more of the 100 best English-language novels of the 20th century (only 31 to go)
  5. Rearrange my work schedule to go to the gym in the morning before arriving in the office
  6. Spend more time with cherished friends and make the effort to cultivate new friendships
  7. Have at least two fully planned and executed parties for friends and family
  8. Plan "Glenn days" for body and soul replenishment
  9. Say "I love you" more often - but only when I mean it

It is going to be a busy year! Stay tuned.

Here's to wishing you all a very happy, healthy, and prosperous 2012.
Much love,
Glenn

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Decompression Dinner Party

The horror - oh the horror of waking up after hosting a holiday party. The memories of what was said and done under the influence of freely flowing alcoholic beverages can make the strongest man hang his head in shame. The consequences of decisions that seemed like such good ideas in the evening's glamor all seem so bad in the harsh light of day. And, don't forget the hangover - we have all been there and somehow survived to tell the story.

Since I was unable to get myself together for a real holiday party this year, I invited a few friends over last night for a small dinner party to decompress from the holiday season. So yesterday was spent in a frenzy of party preparation - house cleaning, food, house cleaning again, setting up the bar, trying out the signature cocktails to perfect the recipes, creating a mood with proper lighting, and setting the table with appetizers.

My guests arrived punctually at 6:30 for the cocktail hour. The evening's signature drinks were well received, and the bottle of whiskey ran out at just the right time to keep the party moving along. The main course was placed in the oven and the wine selections were opened to air. Conversation flowed nicely. The playlist I created Tuesday morning was just upbeat enough to keep everyone circulating while I broke down the bar and got set up for dinner service. Dinner was followed by cordials and a universally loathed game that, based on the amount of laughter and shouting, was a hit. Since most everyone had to work Wednesday morning, the party broke up around midnight. Everyone was sent home with gift bags of my world famous pimento cheese spread, a bottle of champagne, and a big hug. Good times....

I do love throwing a party - especially when everything comes together for a memorable night. And this morning, in the harsh light of day, other than a few sticky spots on the floor and a full recycling bin, the house is in remarkably good shape. The host on the other hand is slightly hungover and may need a new pair of shoes or some other retail therapy after he finishes with the mop.

The party details:
Guests: Clodagh and Jerry B., Cathy and Arjay H., Janice M. and Greg P., Lowell M., and the Host.
Signature Cocktails for the Evening: Old Fashioneds and Manhattans
Appetizers: Chicken Salad, Deviled Eggs, Pimento Cheese, Sausage and Cheese Balls, Veggies and Dip.
Dinner: White Spinach Lasagna with Marinara Sauce and Fresh Tomato Bruchetta
Wine: A selection of Malbec, Cabernet Sauvignon, and Chianti (with Champagne to end the evening)
After Dinner Cordial: Lemoncello
Universally Loathed Game: Celebrity Taboo

I wish I could have invited everyone in the neighborhood, but I have such limited seating for dinner that there will necessarily have to be a phase two party to be planned in the spring. I am thinking something involving mojitos and less sit-down style food. Stay tuned...